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RECONSIDERING TRADITION: TO KNEEL OR NOT TO KNEEL IN PROPOSALS

By Caroline HillJune 8, 2023

Marriage proposals have been a part of human history for centuries, and it is difficult to pinpoint an exact date when they began. The concept of marriage itself predates recorded history, and proposals likely emerged alongside the formation of committed partnerships. Throughout different cultures and historical periods, various customs and rituals have surrounded the act of proposing, reflecting the traditions and values of different societies. While the specific practices and expectations surrounding proposals have evolved, the act of expressing one's desire to marry another person has been a longstanding tradition in human relationships.

There are numerous approaches to asking someone to marry you, and in modern times, the proposer often strives to be innovative and unique, sometimes even reaching extravagant levels.

The traditional practice is for a man to propose on one knee. This gesture is often accompanied by presenting an engagement ring and asking the question, "Will you marry me?" While this is the common tradition, it's important to note that marriage proposals can be personalized to fit the preferences and dynamics of the couple involved. Some individuals may choose to deviate from the traditional approach and propose differently. Ultimately, it's a personal choice that should reflect the couple's unique style and preferences.

Traditionally, when a man proposes, he typically goes down on his left knee. This tradition has its roots in chivalry and the practice of knights kneeling before their lords or ladies. However, it's important to note that the choice of the knee is ultimately up to personal preference and what feels comfortable for the person proposing. Some individuals may choose to go down on their right knee or even propose without kneeling at all. The most important aspect of a proposal is the love and sincerity behind it, so the specific knee used is not a strict rule but rather a tradition that can be adapted to fit individual preferences.
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